WHEN THE MARRIAGE BUBBLE BURSTS

MARRIAGE-WHEN THE BUBBLE BURSTS    What is the truth about marriage? There isn’t a perfect marriage and therefore, people usually walk away when fantasy clashes with reality and it always does. The bible says “you will know the truth and the truth will set you free.” And not free from Marriage but giving you more freedom to love for the right reasons. Pastor Joel Pagett says, “it’s called the LOVE BUG.” It bites us when we think it is the right person, time and place. We are bitten and think we will live happily ever after with that person.” Consequently, the LOVE BUG FLIES OFF when we are faced with crisis and minor problems. Because we confuse Romance with true Love, when the bug flies off we feel we need to move on too. Needless to say, if two people stand together in love through the challenges the bond can again blossom and become stronger. Unselfish love never gives up. Love cares more for others than for self. Love isn’t always me first. Love doesn’t fly off the handle, doesn’t keep score, always looks for the best, but never looks back. So what do people usually do when the bubble bursts? Following are five examples some not so good. You be the judge of what you think is the most beneficial. AND PLEASE BE HONEST WITH YOURSELF!

  1. WE pressure our mate, manipulate and blame them for our displeasures.
  2. Start searching for the right one!
  3. Realize lasting happiness can be found in only one person GOD!
  4. CHANGE our lives and become the right person and become more GOD-LIKE!
  5. LOOK TO GOD for our joy and not to others.

I pray that you will find the answer in your mind and let GOD into your HEART. When you have a relationship with GOD, then HELP is on the way. Be patient and put your trust in him. Our relationships are important. You are IMPORTANT. CHOOSE GOD, CHOOSE LOVE! REMEMBER, “HE WILL NEVER LEAVE YOU OR FORSAKE YOU.”

FAITH IS LAUGHING UP A STORM

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“ A Merry heart does good, like medicine, but a broken spirit dries the bones” Proverbs 17:22

Humor after all is impossible without faith. Because one is able to smile through their tears & laugh despite tragedy! Recently I got a new I-Phone. I was so excited that I got up early one morning to play with it and set all the applications into motion. Unexpectedly as I was sifting through emails etc. I saw this horrible looking woman. Her blonde hair was dry and unkempt it looked like a bird nest and her face looked wrinkled and puffed. Oh my gosh, I thought what an ugly woman? She was wearing crinkled old blue sweat pants and top similar to mine.

GOOD LORD MAN!

Oh Lardy! I then realized IT WAS ME! I had hit the FACETIME BUTTON on accident. Lardy, Lardy, I vowed never to use that feature again and to this day it is marked, DO NOT USE!

My husband talked me into buying a long blonde wig so that I could be much more sexy. When I tried it on, he said I looked like a women of the evening. When I tried out for a Senior Center event wearing it, before the performance I was shifted offstage by the director. She told me I was too sexy and not to bend over in my short nurse outfit, because she didn’t want any of the senior men to have a heart attack during my performance.

I fell down the stairs! and I didn’t need to dress up for Halloween this year. I had one large black eye so I went as a pirate! My black eye lasted for over a week and the reactions were astonishing. While in Big Lots a man screamed at me to DIVORCE THE CREEP.

I fell down the stairs, I replied. Yah I know he answered! DIVORCE THE CREEP! At my fitness club the Manager noticed me and told me He would beat up my husband for slugging me. I told him I fell down the stairs! He replied Yaw right!

Last week I chipped two front teeth. Yaw! Right before Christmas. All I want for Christmas is my two front teeth. When I got up from the Dentists chair I had Chair Hair. You know Chair hair a big gap in the back of your head of hair. I looked like the woman on FACE TIME. Then the dentist said, “Wow you have such a small mouth.” I told him that was funny….. my husband said I had a big mouth.

When I left the dentists I went to Walmart. I couldn’t speak because of the Novocaine and this guy Yelled. DIVORCE THE CREEP. Then in the checkout line the cashier told me I had chair hair.

In the face of tragedy I was able to find some funny. Today I will prove to the world that I am a believer! I will laugh up a storm in the middle of one. I hope you will too. With GOD all things are possible.

HAVE A DELIGHTFUL LAUGHABLE DAY!

 

Loving Friendships

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Does sending a friendship request qualify for a great friendship. We need to understand who is a real friend and what sets them apart from others. We need to know the rules of an honest and lasting friendship. Actually a real friendship has no rules or expectations. Friendship needs to be cultivated with the soil of your heart. Good friendships require time, talking, triumphs, trials, thankfulness, thoughtfulness, tolerance touching and truthfulness. I HOPE YOU HAVE THESE THINGS IN YOUR NOW LIFE FRIENDSHIPS!

FOR TODAY:

Go forth today and enjoy your FRIENDS!