Are You Safe

SAFE is described as freedom from risk or danger. Ones feeling of security and protection. How many of us feel protected and secure? Each day when we leave to go to school or work do we really feel protected or do we have a false feeling of security. There are many objects and procedures put in place to make us feel safe. For example, automatic streetlights that change regularly so we can cross the street in an orderly manner. There are crossing guards at school crosswalks to guide us safely across the street to the other side. Does anyone often stop to contemplate the probability of an accident because a person failed to obey the streetlight or ran carelessly across the intersection and didn’t obey the crossing guard? But it does happen, and most likely because we can’t control everyone. We often take our safety for granted. Suddenly I was hit by this fact of taking our American regulations for granted when I visited China in the late summer three years ago. Crossing the busy bustling streets was at my own peril. I was forced to dart across wide streets as belligerent honking cars raced by. I ran because I didn’t want to end up as road kill. Fearing for my life had not been an everyday occurrence in America.

Looking back on my life as a small child living on a large farm in Idaho, I remember many incidents I had taken for granted. There are simply too many to mention here. But in my later years as I became closer to my dear lord, I realized he had been looking out for me all along. Sure, everyone goes through trials and tribulations because after all we are on a journey here and sometimes it is not an easy one. But the ability to depend on a loving Jesus as he showers his protecting love on us makes us able to face times when we suffer. And it makes it easier to know that the Lord also will be a refuge in times of trouble. It was a lazy Sunday afternoon and I had just returned from church services. I was very tired because I had been up late the night before grading quarterly research papers and I still had a large pile of papers yet to grade and record. I felt a two-hour nap would be sufficient and then I would start the lengthy process. Never in my wildest dreams did I suspect a tragic or horrifying experience would be awaiting me. I don’t know how long I had been at rest, but as I turned over in bed I saw a gray ghostlike figure standing at the foot of my bed. I blinked my foggy eyes trying to clear them. Was I still dreaming or was there a person standing there blatantly staring at me? “Hello” the figure voiced to me as he started to move closer to the bed. Oh my Gosh, this was really a real person standing there and not an apparition! I knew I had two choices. I could run and try to make it out my front apartment door before he caught me. Or I could stay in bed underneath the covers hoping it was a dream and that he would just go away. Somehow I realized neither option seemed reasonable. And so underneath by breath as I so often had done as a child, I prayed! Dear God, What should I do?? At that moment, the phone next to my bed rang. I slowly reached for it and picked it up. It was my male neighbor Mark. I hardly knew him. He had never been to my apartment but I knew he liked to hunt and had guns. “Oh Mark I exclaimed, your coming over right away huh? And you’re bringing your 357 magnum. Good, I’ll see you right away. I hung up!” “Mark is on his way over and he is bringing his gun. You had better go, I exclaimed!” Within seconds the strange man at the end of the bed took off. As he ran towards the front door of my apartment, he bumped into Mark. And then he was gone, never to be seen again. I WAS SAFE!

Thank you Dear Lord, for your protecting love. Mark had called just in time. He had never called me before. Remember …GOD, is our good Shepard. For we are able to face times of danger for he takes care of his own. I hope that you too, will make God your dear Shepard and dwell in his protection. Allow his love as a foundation of joy, peace and purpose in your heart.

What does it means to have FUZZY FRIENDS?

WHAT DOES IT MEANS TO HAVE FUZZY FRIENDS?

FUZZY FRIENDS are usually our pets. They consist of rabbits,gerbils, doggies & kittens. If we train and love them, they become special creatures in our lives. They love us unconditionally. That means if we fail to measure up or fit into the traditional boxes that society tries to put us in, our pets will still be waiting for us at the door when we come home. After a hard stressful day’s work, we can drop our problems as we are greeted and we respond by showing affection, talking and petting them and they always return the favor. They never tell us we are too fat, skinny or stupid or unworthy. A bunny responds with kisses from a small wet nose. A kitten reacts with a seductive purr as she waltzes between our ankles and rubs against our pants leg. The dog runs in circles and barks delightfully now that you have arrived home.

I never realized how much nature’s animals could fill a void in ones life until I got my first pet dog. I had been frequently told by an angry abusive stepfather, “we don’t want any animals here.” That was usually after I had picked up a stray dog and cared for it and upon returning from school found it missing. When I questioned my stepfather, he replied, “the owner wanted his dog back, what could I do?” I knew he was lying.

At twenty years old a fiancée bought me a diamond wristwatch and laughed when I exclaimed I wanted a dog instead, “you’ve got to be kidding” Luckily he traded the watch in for a cute little chocolate poodle. I add a word of caution here, because animals should be a part of a family and deciding to have one is a big decision. Too many animals have been abandoned and hurt in our current society. I thought I was so careful with my dog, but the only evening I let him off leash he ran across the street. I stood in horror at the corner seeing the approaching car and knowing I was helpless. There was only one car that went down the street that solemn night and it was the one that hit him. I heard the car full of teenagers laugh as they drove off into the sad awesome darkness. Luckily my dog was killed instantly. But I soon realized how I had taken him for granted. I missed the comfort, the affection the unconditional love that he had showered upon me for only two short years.

Even if we don’t have fuzzy friends, human friends are important too. We need to cherish them and not take them for granted. Real human friendships are hard to find and they don’t always love you unconditionally. But I submit to you that GOD is your true friend. You can have a relationship with him. He loves you! His bible verses comfort you and he does love you unconditionally. Don’t take GOD for granted by taking him off the shelve only when you sense a crisis. He is waiting at the door when you come home from work. He wants your love and prayers too! Remember FUZZY FRIENDS and human friends are important. But only one true friend will be there with you for all time and eternity. MAKE GOD YOUR FRIEND TODAY!

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